Humility is actually more powerful. In reality very few people
get close to being ego-less, but being aware that it is a
goal will create greater balance and personal security.
It is my firm view that no matter what the success the
following is true";
Big ego = low self esteem
Humble = pride of performance = high self esteem
Nothing to prove (therefore harmony)
No need to put others down (therefore
respected)
No need to control (therefore others
flourish)
No need to be right (therefore less stress)
Ego and self become one, therefore ego-less
Big ego characteristics:
Fearful, insecure and attack-minded
Big ego people would rather be right and
mess up than admit frailty! Both introverted and extroverted
big egos are afraid they will be found out and not be supermen
– this is dumb because everyone generally knows the truth
anyway. They tend to be blinded by arrogance because big ego
people think others are stupid and cannot see through them and
the fear behind the ego.
Big ego characteristics: There are
two types of ego. The subtle or introverted big ego or the
extrovert.
It is more difficult for subtle or
introverted big ego type of person to succeed in high-level
sport. They tend to have the following characteristics: